Leaving home as a young person

Leaving home is a major decision that you should not take lightly. Leaving home will give you more freedom. But, it also means you will have new responsibilities.

The best way to leave home is after careful thought and planning. Leaving your parental home at a very young age is hard, especially if you have nowhere to go. It should be the very last option. You could easily end up homeless.

To rent in the private sector, you will need to pay a deposit and rent in advance. You won't be eligible for a council home.

If you are experiencing problems at home, try to talk it through with someone you trust. This could be a friend, a teacher, or an extended family member such as an aunt or uncle. If the situation becomes worse, see if there is a place you can go to for a night or two to let everyone cool down.

We may be able to provide mediation with your family to help talk through the problems.

Things may seem bad. But if you leave home unprepared, you may find yourself in a worse situation. You may also find it difficult to continue with your education.

If you have no choice and feel you have to leave home now, for example because someone is being violent or abusive towards you, you must seek help right away.

There are a number of agencies who can help you:

  • Childline: 0800 1111 (free 24 hour support helpline for children and young people)
  • Womens Aid: 0808 2000 247 (free 24 hour helpline for victims of domestic violence)

You can find more information in our 'Homeless young people' booklet.

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